Nigerian Pastor Debates Beauty in Marriage
A self-described Nigerian pastor, Prophet Apata Enoch, sparked a debate on social media recently by advising people not to marry what he considers an “ugly” person. He made his point while celebrating the birthday of his wife, using the post as a springboard for his opinion.
Enoch posted on August 5th that his 50-year-old wife would be turning 54, and wrote: “Don't marry an ugly person because of old age. Open your heart and eyes.” He further elaborated on how divine guidance prevented him from marrying another woman who, in her old age, he wouldn’t find attractive. His comments have generated a mixed reaction.
Divine Guidance in Marriage?
The pastor claims that before he intended to marry the now-elderly woman, God guided him away, saying she would no longer be appealing when older. He writes: “Today, she looks like someone I can’t take pictures with.” However, his views are not widely agreed upon.
One user on Facebook said, “Too often, some men of God make emotional posts that create further controversy and bring reproach to the Cross and to the Creator. Every woman is created in divine beauty.” Another added, “Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.”Frequently Asked Questions
Does the pastor regularly talk about his church?
Yes, our correspondent found that he frequently addresses a congregation and often discusses his church on previous social media posts.
How many years have they been married?
The couple is celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary this year, according to the pastor’s recent post.